Nicole Fofonoff
R.C.C., M.Ed. Counselling Psychology
Psychotherapist | Registered Clinical Counsellor | Master of Education in Counselling Psychology
Hello, my name is Nicole (she/her) and I support folks who may be struggling with feelings of anxiousness and depression, or who are in the perinatal/postpartum period. I dive with you into your past hurts, current coping strategies and thought patterns and support you in understanding where these came from and what we can do now to find some peace.
My aim is to reduce distress and feelings of guilt and shame in the lives of my clients so that they may fully connect with themselves and their families again. My work centers on client empowerment and recognizing the uniqueness of each of our stories. I pull from techniques within Internal Family Systems parts work, Adlerian psychology and mindful self compassion practices to create a therapeutic space unique to you. I have had the privilege of working with children, youth, and adults experiencing a wide range of life's challenges and look forward to walking alongside you in your discovery and healing.
If you are specifically seeking perinatal or postpartum therapeutic support please read the following.
Life during pregnancy and new parenthood is made to seem like it should be the most joyous time. While many aspects of this transition can hold great happiness, many people feel immense fear, stress and loss during this time as well. Despite how common it is to feel this mix of emotions, we are made to feel guilty for any emotion that isn't positive! I recognize the need to hold space for all emotions during the prenatal and postpartum stages, to reduce shame, isolation and suffering in the lives of my clients. Counselling during these periods of life not only benefits the client, but the child, the partner and the family as a whole entity. If you are pregnant or have given birth and are feeling anxious, detached, depressed or helpless, please reach out.
Postpartum blues will impact approximately 50% - 75% of new mothers. It is perfectly normal to experience fluctuating emotions that don't align with how we've been told to feel. However, postpartum depression and anxiety impedes your ability to function day-to-day and connect with your baby. Our work together can connect you to more social supports, manage symptoms and guide you towards recovery. It is never too late to seek help. Pregnancy loss is an area of grief that often feels impossible to navigate. No one knows what to say so many people feel abandoned or further hurt by what is said to them. It is hard to imagine anything more heartbreaking than this loss, and you are deserving of so much support and space to grieve. I recognize the vastly unique ways in which we all grieve, from our childhoods, to our religious or spiritual beliefs, to our family supports and rituals. Using a trauma-informed, person-centered approach, you can process your loss safely and be guided towards healing. You were never meant to do this alone.
Nicole is currently accepting new clients for virtual sessions only.
modalities
Internal Family Systems (Parts Work)
Adlerian Therapy
Interpersonal Therapy
Mindful self compassion
Feminist, trauma informed lens
get to know me
What do you do to destress?
Acrylic paintingWhat is your go-to midnight snack?
Buttery microwave popcornWhere is your happy place?
Swimming in Okanagan lakeFavourite place you have travelled?
Mondello Beach, Palermo ItalyIf you could have one superpower, what would it be?
A fully regulated nervous system.What is your favourite way to spend a day off?
A slow morning with solo time to cook nourishing meals then see loved ones in the evening for some fun.What is the last book you read that really spoke to you?
The Highly Sensitive Person In Love.What's one thing that can instantly make your day better?
Spicy chai latteWhat is one thing you would do if you knew you couldn't fail?
Solo travel the worldWhat is your go-to Karaoke song?
Party for Two - Shania Twain